ESH Yes he should get his act together and you enable him to get away with poor behaviour when you take over.

If you want your husband to cook, you need to work it out as a couple. This starts with him knowing that he has to cook X meals this week and him recipe planning, buying the food and being mentally prepared to cook on the day. I mean this is probably what you do in your head every week, right?

It’s up to you to clearly set your expectations earlier in the week when he has an opportunity to plan ahead and meet them. If he still does not come through for you, then it’s time for a bigger conversation about supporting each other and relationship roles.