AITA For being selfish and wanting my girlfriend to be with me during my chemotherapy treatment?

NAH and ESH

I don’t at all blame you for wanting support and comfort from those closest to you. Unfortunately, this is such a huge task for someone so young and in such an early stage in a relationship. You need all the love and support you can get right now and she has been there for you the best she can. This is heavy though and she may just need a break. This has to be a lot for her too.

Having said that, I do think you’re going through more than she is and I think you need to rely more on your friends and family right now. They were there before her and they will be there throughout it all regardless if she’s around or not.

She shouldn’t be judged or hated for not wanting to neglect the life she had before you and you shouldn’t be relying on just one person for all of this.

I’m so sorry you’re going through all of this. What a horrible situation you’re all in. Wishing you all the best. Please give an update when you can.

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