AITA for being upset over what was supposed to be something harmless?

NTA- I have anxiety and paranoia as well so I completely understand why you are mad. If I was being followed late at night I would definitely not expect it to be my friend, I would immediately think that it was something sketchy. I have been mad at my neighbour/friend before, she knows that she can't come knock on my door, she needs to text me before she comes over (or anyone in that fact) and one day at 1am she came banging on the door for my boyfriend to move his car, it immediately set off an anxiety attack and my boyfriend had to calm me down, I was so angry at her and she never apologized. Everyone I know has been told not to just randomly show up at my place, they need to let me know first (my abusive ex set up a fake dating profile in my name and told random men where I was living and told one guy to come over at 2am,he did, he had my name, age, address and said I invited him over, ever since I have not been able to answer the door)

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