AITA for berating my daughter when she used my card on door dash?

hi guys, i’m the daughter. I’d like to clear some things or rationalize it. I think my mom’s the AH still. even though she posted this expecting people would take her side. Me and my brother don’t mind being left alone, even if it’s technically illegal. Ik my mom is gonna read this comment, but i say this stuff to her face, so idc. She sucks at buying groceries, so i like to do them myself and for my brother. She literally buys juice and roasted chicken most of the time, and wonders why our food doesn’t last long. I’m not even old enough to have a job or drive, so i can’t provide for our family. my brother has a job tho. i wouldn’t have called cps on myself, even though my mom is undeniably a narcissist. i say this to her a lot, and she say’s she’s not every time. i door-dashed a lot of bang’s, monster, energy drinks. but i did get proper food too. We literally had nothing to cook at home, and like i said, she doesn’t know how to shop for food. she yelled at me cause she was in one of her mood swings she has often. i think it’s called a textbook narcissist. or bipolar. It happens out of the blue, and she can’t be reasoned with. other times, she’s fine. i won’t get in trouble for writing this. she’s an ah and a narcissist, but im used to it, and i still love her.

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