You may want to think about this with careful consideration for your relationship with her in the future rather than events that have already transpired. Regardless of whether she went to that bachelor party or not, you had a choice to not go in order to respect her feelings and keep the peace between you two (regardless of hypocrisy) and you decided to go anyway because it felt “right” based on what she did in the past. The point is respect. What has already happened has happened, you have every right to ask her not to go to strip clubs from this point on as long as you do the same. You cannot change what has already happened and you should not hold it against her.