AITA for cleaning my son and DIL's apartment while she was in labor?

I think you're the asshole, and you're entitled.

They didn't ask you to clean. They asked you to feed the cats. Period. Going through someone's house like that is intrusive. As is letting yourself in in the middle of the night. As is disrupting breastfeeding, and the other gamut of crap you did.

Your son (you, dh) is married. Leave and cleave. His wife is supposed to be his priority now. I'm sure you're just full of parental, outdated advice for your BAAAAABBBYYYY, right? And dear DIL that you supposedly love so much just won't listen to you and won't let you be involved? Right.

Back the hell off. With all of it. Let your son and his wife do their thing as AN ADULT FAMILY. Oh, and maybe dont paint this from a "poor meeeee I don't understand I'm the victiiiiiim" perspective. You make your Dil out to be a bitch for not wanting you in L&D and to not mess with her things. It's ridiculous.

For anyone that thinks I'm being harsh, you should read the DILs perspective. This woman is a wolf in sheep's clothing.

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