AITA for commenting on my wife’s weight and encouraging her to exercise?

Yeah but honestly every fucking person gets bullied and put down for shit. I guarantee there is not one person that has some asshole say fucked up shit to them. I by no means judge people and/or bully others. I actually hate it when people put others down for absolutely no reason. I became fat in highschool after coming out as gay and then coping with food and I got bullied pretty hard by some people, but I never really cared what they thought. I try to see insults as a projection of the other person and not me. I don’t think people should be put down, but I also don’t think there should be fat acceptance, we shouldn’t be accepting something that is proven to give you a worse quality of life and finish you lifespan, especially when the majority of the country is already fat to begin with. It’s just really concerning to me to think of the next generations coming up and how there are people shoving these things down their throat. Dieting is hard and creating a sustainable diet is hard for most people, because most people don’t actually know what a sustained diet looks like because their is so much misinformation. Fat activists love to say that every diet is an eating disorder but apparently overeating everyday to the point of becoming obese and destroying your body isn’t an eating disorder in their eyes and should be celebrated? No mam

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