AITA for constantly suggesting my spouse get a vasectomy?

Good point (I probably forgot while writing my comment), but at the same time I was wondering if she’s tried different types of birth control (such as the pill, the patch, the implant). Usually the effects are only for the first 3-4 months and they fade as your body adjusts to the hormones. It’s no different than a trans girl taking hormones, it’s like going through a second puberty, and your body has to adjust from there. I guess I feel that IMO if she was a concerned as she makes it out to be, she would get her tubes tied (you still have your period regularly afterwards, it doesn’t affect much) instead of pressuring him into something that he’s probably not interested in.

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