No I was hypothetically saying would it have been better if I had just told her that from the get go ? Instead of saying what I said and trying to be nice to her and have a friendly conversation. All I did was ask what she told Mike. As I would any friend I hung out with. But her reaction is what changed the course of everything. She shouldn’t have said none of your business.

Of course id never tell her I don’t find her attractive or girlfriend material to her face. That would be mean. Tho my friend said I was too harsh with what I did say and I didn’t have to reject her so quickly and she probably felt like I find her repulsive. I don’t really agree with him. I don’t think she’s repulsive btw. Just not someone I want to day