This has to be a made up story, right? There is NO WAY someone can be so oblivious and cold hearted right? It's like asking a spouse of vet who lost his legs in war, how is it like taking care of someone handicapped? Or asking the vet, how does it make you feel having your spouse having to take care of you in every way? Or asking a survivor of a grave situation, how can they live with themselves when others died and they didn't.... Because I would feel like it's a HEAVY BURDEN....

Answer either way, is uncomfortable to, something you don't bring up if you are a decent human being. It was malicious and you and your husband are AH to the extreme.

How does it feel to have 2 people die to save your chance to live, when you were a baby and little child? Are you serious??? God pray you don't have any medical issues that will need transplants. Or please decline receiving transplants. Also please don't procreate your kids will be hell spawns.