tbh i don’t even think having a mixed drink is bad the fact he lied and didn’t give specifics means he know he went overboard imo. a single daiquiri won’t kill anyone if it’s mostly slushy, neither will a glass of wine or beer while watching the game or making some dinner, however the fact this man won’t talk abt his previous relationship with alcohol is so so so suspicious i grew up with both casual drinkers and people now sober, to me his lack of info on his own personal history is what makes me know what he did was wrong, no one’s mad at a single margarita while ur kid asleep and u watch a movie UNLESS u can’t control drinking and now you’re hiding info. for me, this is the biggest red flag i hope the kid is okay