AITA for expressing my disappointment and resentment about the baby to my wife?

NAH My heart goes out to you. You are grieving and grief impacts people differently. Your wife springs into action and you disengage. Did you come off as an ass hole in your argument? Sure, but people say things when they are grieving. Apologize profusely and seek forgiveness. I recommend you get yourself a therapist ASAP as well as couples counseling. You’re going to need it if your marriage is to survive

I am expecting and my husband and I had a very frank conversation when the strip turned pink that we would not keep a child we knew had Down syndrome. It might sound cold but I knew our marriage would not survive. I am so thankful we had this conversation and recommend that all couples do this when they begin the process of trying to conceive.

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