AITA for getting upset with my wife because she doesn't like that our daughter looks like my mother?


She didn’t criticise your daughters looks or the traits she inherited. All she said was that she wished her daughter looked more like her, which I don’t think is that crazy. Everyone pictures what their future child will look like, and I doubt she pictured your mothers face when imagining her child.

She might also not like that she looks so much like your mother because of their relationship. She’s probably constantly reminded about how bad their relationship is and how much they dislike her. You shouldn’t have dismissed her feelings, and made her feel like a bad person for having them. She’s your wife, she’s going to come to you with her feelings.

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