Aita for giving all of my coworkers a different reason for why I have missing fingers?

Honest question- why aren’t they supposed to ask? I mean I would wait till I knew someone a little but when I have had friends or co workers with obvious physical stuff then eventually the story gets asked/ told. It just something you talk about at some point with people you know. It’s a natural human thing to want to know. I can see asking a stranger in a rude way would be nosey, but asking someone personal questions as you get to know them is just part of getting to know them.

Or I mean maybe I’ve been doing it wrong. I don’t feel like I’ve ever gotten a bad reaction but I like getting to know people and often ask them about their lives and history and stuff. Maybe because I am small friendly female but I never felt like I was being rude and I don’t think I normally put people off - but I would totally ask someone this question.

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