He told me. He’s my best friend and loves telling me tea about his coworkers and what happened that day. He told me initially that she was being a little weird with him, but then set it aside and started being friends with her. I told him it was weird that she was facetiming him at night and sending good morning/good night messages and he said he’d nip it in the bud. This week he came home and told me he found out she actually does like him (which I’d been telling him forever but he never trusts my judgement on these things) and said her objectifying him made him uncomfortable and he would cut off the relationship. I later noticed he had deleted their entire text thread, but I tried not to think much of it.