ESH- You shouldn’t be going around spreading negativity, but what you could have done is private messaged the person you were talking too instead of replying publicly. Also I think your friend is taking this a little to hard and needs to relax because your message wasn’t really directed at them, it was just a normal conversation with another person who isn’t Actually offended. Shit talk is great, but just do it in private with your friends. I can see why she got mad because nobody likes that kind of stuff on there own channel because they kinda take responsibility for letting it happen. I’m leaning on YTA but I’m kinda in the middle. Just keep to yourself and buddies bro.