Soooo NTA.

My spouse recently abdicated alllll the responsibilities due to an injury that landed him between crutches and a wheelchair. (Oh, the irony, as the crutches and chairs are ones I have suffered to use about six times during our marriage.)

This newfound utter lack of competence in all areas has included selecting and communicating his outfits when and wear he needs to be. Guess who got the Garanimal treatment for over a week before he caught wise at a business dinner?

I’m struggling with how to get him to take back ownership of absolutely anything.

I am doing my best to take a page out of OPs playbook and, if I’m honest, channeling my favorite r/JUSTNOMIL hero u/schnitzeldehuahua