I’m not going to say you’re an AH and you had every right not to want to ring it but you have to understand as well their side ringing that bell isn’t just for your benefit but for everyone else in that treatment center as a tiny glimmer of hope that if this person can beat I can too and I will get to have a life beyond this. So when they hear that bell it’s one more person that’s “ beating cancer” and they might be next. I only say this because there was a young boy in my neighborhood fighting cancer a few years ago and he gave a speech at the benefit we hosted for him and that’s part of what he said. How he listened for that bell waiting for his turn. Unfortunately he passed away before his turn came.