I have all of those, and yet I’m having trouble finding someone to stay with my child so I can go have my new baby in a few weeks.

My parents live out of state and my mom just started a new job, if she takes time off now she will lose the job. She was my first choice, but this job offer came out of nowhere and she couldn’t refuse it. My in laws are having unexpected serious health issues. They were our back up choice. My siblings live in another state and have kids of their own to watch. My friends that are close enough to do this have jobs that don’t allow them to just leave if I randomly go into labor…

We may have to resort to my husband staying home with him, but that means he misses the birth of our second child. We will do what we need to do. But you can’t judge a situation based on what one upset person posts. We don’t know the other side of the story.