AITA for not letting my pregnant SIL stay with me?

Nta

I hate to be that person, but...do you know if she is 110% pregnant, or something she's said to try and get a place out of you? The whole girl smells like walking manipulation.

Someone else already said, if she does move in and she is pregnant, she will never leave because she'll pull hard on those guilt strings, and I bet will use it for free childcare out of you lot too. Also, whether she'd actually care for it or manipulate you and your family into free childcare...that's a newborn baby in your house. Two mouths to feed, two extra bodies to care for and pay for. Plus, a screaming newborn. Everyone's already made it clear they don't want to sign up for that.

Her apology also comes at a convenient time; when she needs something. Why is she apologising to you and not the person she continued to bully, humiliate and harass into almost adulthood? Because it won't matter to him, and she knows it'll get her nowhere.

As some have suggested, send a group message to all the guilting family members and explain you have passed on their kind offers to host and will help her choose the right one. If they're sincere, they'll be more than helpful. Or they'll squirm because they don't want her either and you're the scapegoat. Either way, double down. No means no.

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