NTA. Your body is yours, and I expect he didn’t have his waxed for you.

Real women aren’t porn stars who, btw, started shaving/waxing down there because of crabs. A lot of guys see porn as their ideal sexual experience, and thus expect shaved parts. Some women like to be smooth. Some don’t. It’s not up to you to pander to men-children. Most normal men are just happy you’re sharing your playground with them.

Personally, it always weirded me out to find a guy wants a smooth mons, because to me that’s a pre-pubescent look. I’ve never had a guy turn down sex w/me just because my parts look more like a Brazilian rainforest than a Brazilian ladyscape. He’s the AH.