AiTA for not trusting a delivery driver?

I've honestly been waiting for this question.

Hourly not salary but 6 figures. A lot of folks in the area work here because it's one of the last "good jobs" in the area. The cost of living here is very low. My mother and the wife's parents are here and we have a daughter that's a junior in high school. This is the best job in the area. After the last place I was at got close to folding, we could either move a few thousand miles or over-seas or I could take this and with elderly parents and a middle-school aged daughter (at the time) I decided to stay here. With my skill set, I could go a lot of places and do well but between the cost of living here and the other factors, this is the best for us right now. I can suck it up and deal with the shitty stuff for my family. It's shitty and dehumanizing but it's worth it for now. We plan on following the daughter once our parents are gone. She's looking at specialized fields in college and she wants to continue swimming and we'll "follow" then if we can or if she ends up relocating, we'll try to be close. We're not stalking her but if we have the opportunity to stay close to her and stay a close part of her life and any possible grandkids, we will. I just keep building my skill set and marketability and when the time comes up, I'll pull the pin and bail.

TLDR: It's the best thing going in the area and right now isn't the time to leave

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