AITA for not wanting to meet my long distance boyfriend if he brings his family on the trip?

Hey guys, I happen to be the sister of this little story. There are a few things about his post that have been left out.

  1. My brother is 20, she is 23.
  2. She lives in Canada, we live in America.
  3. She has no social media.
  4. She will not text him or Snapchat him.
  5. She cannot come to see us because she is unable to obtain a passport, as she has changed her name.
  6. She has sent my brother things in the mail and she doesn't put her return address on the envelope.

She claims that my 20 year old brother doesn't need a chaperone, and that I or my mother shouldn't come along, yet she is 23 and still lives at home with her mother. She claims that "added pressure if his family comes too", yet her family will be there, since she still lives at home?

I personally think that a 20 year old kid who hasn't traveled much, has no reason to HAVE to go alone. Especially when she seems to be invisible to the public. If there was more social media involvement such as Snapchat/FaceTime/Skype, it would be more understandable.

Also, why state false facts in the post? That seems strange to me. The ages are incorrect, where we live is incorrect, and she left out many of the important facts.

I am not here to start an argument. I am here to tell the truth.

ALSO, keep in mind that my brother would have to pay for all of this alone and travel to an unknown place. Why wouldn't you allow the family to come along? We have no intentions of being with them. We simply would like to be in the area, and fuck a vacation sounds nice.

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