AITA for not wanting my kids every weekend?

YTA - My mom and dad were divorced and my dad got me and my brother every other weekend. I loved spending time at my dad's house and always looked forward to going. There were some weekend though that he didnt show up and said he had to work and it crushed me that I missed time with him. As an adult I asked him about the times he never came to get my brother and I he admitted that sometimes he would just go party or be with friends or go on little vacations. It fucking crushed me. I felt like whatever he was doing was more important than being with me, his son, that he is supposed to love unconditionally. I never hated him, in fact we were really close, and that's what made it hurt worse. Now hes passed away due to cancer and I dont get another second with him.

Get your shit together and spend time with your fucking kids, you're being selfish.

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