ESH I think you have every right to piss him off and do what you want. He also has every right to leave you with a newborn and be off with his son. Geeze! Be an adult and find a compromise. Either tell the kid what's going on or leave the room, either way quit acting like you're the queen and everyone needs to bow to you. "It was hot and I had to lift up my huge shirt" lol Drama! If it's such an issue between both of you, then pump the milk and feed via bottle. Or... you can keep picking fights.... what kind of future marriage were you planning? FYI I have never seen any woman not cover up in public... not that I go around looking for it.