AITA for not wanting to get a new tree topper?

NTA. First of all uh "regular"?? Tell your new husband that you are a regular person too and if he is trying to equate being white to something you aren't (when you sound like a pretty normal regular person to me OP) then you two need to have a more serious discussion about some more serious topics.

Also, if he chose to marry into a black family, he ought to prepare to be surrounded by black Christmas culture. Your new husband sounds a bit dense I'm sorry to say.

Even if this wasnt about the color of the people in your decorations. These are your decorations and this is also your home too, so you get a say in what goes up (especially if he doesnt own any decorations).

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