Thats BS too. First of all I broke up with her after the first 2 years because I knew I had to clean myself up and it was not fair on her to be with someone that had a serious drug problem and wasn't honest with her.
Secondly she was aware I had used drugs in my past after the first 3 months of dating but I did not tell her I was still using on weekends despite never using around her.
Thirdly I finally manned up and told her my problem after the 3rd year which I believe is totally unfair on her because I forced into a corner where (because I loved her and could see how great she was) she had fallen in love with me she would not leave. Thinking about it now IATA completely. A selfish human being.