I agree with a previous post that you are both AH and therefore ESH. As a proud English person myself what liberal town are you referring to? As most of England from London, to Midlands, to the north Manchester, Leeds, up to the South, Bournemouth, Brighton etc all are progressive and liberal, England is a great multicultural progressive society nothing like the image many foreigners have. You know we have gay bars, weddings and open and honest conversations about sexuality and all the consequences that these grown up feelings and behaviours can lead too..Are children are educated in sexual health and we have a country that takes it's sexual health seriously. Sexuality transmitted disease is falling and so is teenage pregnancy. All done by full frank progressive educational talks with the younger generation. Playing 'spin the bottle' really mate most of us grew out of this in our teens! This game mixed with drinks can be a relationship breaker. Therefore she was silly to partake in a drinking game. Not thinking that once started she couldn't control the narrative and you took part with the full intention of outing some of her previous history just to embarrass her maybe give her a dose of her own medicine? You clearly knew she wanted to impress her new fella but you decided that you could get some payback at her expense and took it ignoring her request not to divulge her secrets. She doesn't get away scott free by running off and turning on the waterworks is manipulative on her part using tears to stop the game and garnish sympathy from the others in the room. Silly when many at the party knew she is usually the one talking about her sexual exploits. To me neither of you seem edgy if you have to talk about it you ain't got it. This probably spoiled the party atmosphere and divided the opinions of the part goers. As a feller Countryman I think you know you both behaviours over here woukd not be described as AH's more likely a couple of f**king Dickheads!!. Hope this helped!!