Yeah I definitely get that my constant worrying can be a problem, that’s why I tried to include it in the post in the spirit of transparency. Both of us work jobs right now that don’t offer health insurance but are too lucrative to leave and we are both in a tax bracket that makes health insurance absolutely insane monthly, we’re in the US. My concern is also what if these small concerns become not so small but less on the financial side, I’d rather have him alive and healthy and be in debt than sick and have him worried about going to the doctor cause we can’t afford it. Which is why I try to stress to go to the doctor and dentist now when it’s early.