This thread makes me angry. It’s NAH. She has every right to not wear clothes but he 110% has the right to voice his opinion on something that makes him uncomfortable. It’s a relationship and there has to be give and take.
It’s not like he gave you an ultimatum about it. Your behavior was bothering him so he asked you to change it. Was he a little rude about it? Honestly yea. The logic behind it isn’t exactly great either, but assuming you colored this entire story to get that NTA answer (you can’t help it, it’s just your personal bias.. every story has it) I’m sure he had other reasons too.
YWBTA is you knew you were making him uncomfortable and didn’t reach a compromise. This is a great example of something being normal for one group of people and weird for another. It’s like smoking inside the house— Fine for some couples, but not for others. Or personally enjoying the heat 3 notches higher while he prefers it cooler. Or microwaving fish, or cooking with garlic, or walking around naked all the time. If you’re both cool with it, awesome. And if you’ve been doing something for a long time, it doesn’t mean he can’t change his opinion on it.
You’ve been together for a while. If something bothers either of you, you should be able to feel comfortable expressing your opinion to your partner..
NAH. He’s not wrong for asking and you’re not wrong for not wanting to change. Now try to meet somewhere in the middle?