Heard.

Couple thoughts, though. I agree sometimes people jump on the “leave him” train too soon..... but I stand my original comment that what he is doing repeatedly is not ok and action needs to be taken immediately. Also, sometimes, original posters need to be told when something is not ok because they simply can’t see it for themselves. Who knows how many times someone has come here, gotten responses and then thought “You know what, these people are right! I DO deserve better!”

ps: Having full-on conversations with someone while shitting is gross, plain and simple. I don’t care how open and amazing your relationship is..... there is nothing that can’t wait 5 minutes. And realizing this doesn’t make your relationship “vulnerable” ..... it makes you a decent person.