ESH

Catcalling isn't flattering. It's not complimenting to have people shout at you on the street or follow you. It's demeaning and done by creeps with no manners. And then you go and blame your friend for how she dresses which makes you an asshole. Women have been catcalled and harassed regardless of what shape or size they are. Women get harassed whether they're in bikinis or in full on winter/snow gear. You need to learn this and deal with whatever body insecurities you have you via therapy. You're sad you haven't been catcalled yet and let me tell you, that's not something to be sad about. There's nothing flattering about grown ass adults catcalling and whistling at teenagers.

Your friend on the other hand seems vain and likes fishing for compliments. She seems a little self centered. Or maybe she really has body issues and thinks she needs to be sexy and pretty for people to like her. Either way, you should probably stop being friends with her if she's this annoying to you.