YTA.

Her house, her rules.

Keep in mind that she wouldn't care in the slightest if you had a job and lived independently and came over one random night and were up past 11 chatting with Pops keeping her awake.

This is a symptom of the larger dynamic - I know it wouldn't make any sense for YOU to live in the dorms, but try to think of it from the other side. What sense does it make for your PARENTS to put you up as an adult?

I get that it's cultural and maybe the norm, but you should also recognize that this type of conflict might also be the norm in that culture?

If you want to live with that dynamic, then you need to live like you're still in middle school in some ways because you are still so dependent on your parents.