Idk, I’d say NAH.

Having non traditional wedding parties should be a discussion. My partner and I both easily could have chosen mixed parties, but decided together to keep it simple and traditional. After all the day was about us, not our friends, and obviously our friends would be there to support anyway.

I don’t think it’s too much to ask to keep things traditional. I don’t think your girl friend expects to be in your wedding party. I don’t think you’re wrong for wanting to include someone you feel close to.

But you gotta work together and come to an agreement on this, because it does matter for the health of your relationship.