AITA for telling my sister she can't bring her baby to my party, and saying that we shouldn't be coddling her all the time?

I am childfree by choice but i don't expect everyones else's world to revolve around me. As long as they let me bring my housetrained dog to their house because he'll sit at my feet the whole time, not run around breaking their shit and putting their greasy, snot filled paws (hands) all over their expensive stuff (like kids do). If they don't let him come, I just don't go, because he's my kid LOL.

YTA OP, because people have babies, and you've had your whole life to adjust to this fact. I couldn't even fathom asking someone not to bring their own pride and joy with them. How dare I make them feel that the human who is most important in the world to them is a bother for me.

Extra bonus YTA because this womans - your sisters - husband died less than a year ago, and she's struggling, probably financially as well as emotionally? My gosh. There are no words for how much you suck.

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