AITA for threatening to not allow my children to visit my parents alone if they don't stop trying to convert my children to Christianity?

NTA - they're your children so they should respect your boundaries, even if they don't agree.

The only other aspect is that you say you don't want to push religion on them, but it seems on the opposite end you're vehemently against them hearing about religion or choosing to partake, which arguably is another form of forcing your worldview in that regard. I think raising your kids to freely choose to be religious or not or you truthfully answering their questions and telling them your position on it but not stifling their curiosity seems a more balanced way IMO.

I'm a social scientist who studies religion and am pretty neutral about it in so far as I believe, like every other social institution and practice, we make every single thing up, so it's no more or less made up than any other thing humans do and believe and tell ourselves. So my measure for stuff is: what effect does it have and does it help or harm you in life? All that to say, if you don't believe in God and don't necessarily think the belief is harmful, you could be more flexible. But of course, if your parents are scaring your kids have to death with religion or really pushing it in ways that are more harmful or aggressive then I would continue being firm with them about it.

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