AITA For trying to warn/protect my ex?

It sounds like you're assuming a lot:

I know very little about him other than the fact he apparently 'loves' her and somehow has the idea he's going to get with her

Throughout our relationship and to this day he refuses to talk or even go near me because of his 'anxiety'

To me this seems like he's avoiding me because he knows I'm the type of person to see him exactly for what he is

because of my lack of understanding of this person I did what I thought was best and told her to be careful because in my opinion he was trying to get her fucked up just to get in her pants

You said yourself, you barely know this guy. You didn't list any concrete evidence as to why she's actually "in danger".

Honestly, it sounds to me like the wounds are still fresh from your breakup and you're really overprotective of her. That might be why she's feeling smothered?

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