AITA for uninviting my parents to my wedding after my mom said “I don’t care about your fucking wedding”?

To be honest, I think anyone that has had a nightmare MIL, or even just a frosty relationship, would admire your spine if they knew the situation. It shows you're committed to "leaving and cleaving" - protecting your wife, your partner. You're a unit, and you have to put up a united front - even against your parents when they're out of line.

Your wife could have included her in the "fun" parts, but saying "I don't care about your fucking wedding, I'm not going to help" puts your mom squarely in the wrong. Your mother is lashing out over the hurt she feels, which may or may not be justified, as opposed to trying to resolve the issue like an adult. She is expecting to be included without making any effort at deserving to be included, i.e., being cold to your wife-to-be instead of trying to build a relationship, which undermines any justification she may have over feeling hurt. NTA.

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