AITA for using my husband's money to pay for my daughter's Apple IPhone that he broke?

They both seem to be struggling for control of their household. She is mad her husband stopped working, it’s clear in her tone, so her husband made that decision either without her or disregarding her. She decided on her own to make a major purchase, disregarding his opinion. Then he’s mad she bought the phone and takes it out on the daughter, making rude comments about the phone. She stated she told her daughter to disregard his anger. This is all a power struggle. Power struggles are always going to end in nobody winning. This lead to him literally emotionally abusing his own child. They need to walk away from each other or it’s the daughter that’s going to be hurt the most.

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