AITA: For wanting to play videogames.

I really just wanted to check on whether this was really about her feeling like you get to relax when she doesn't. It sounds like she's also getting plenty of down time, though, so that's not it.

IDK, this still feels like it's not really about the video games themselves and there's an underlying issue here. Is it possible she resents it because you're doing a solo activity for hours every day and not spending enough time with her? Is the difference in your bed times disrupting her sleep? Are you getting enough sleep that this isn't having an impact on how you behave during the day?

If it IS as simple as she just thinks your hobby is dumb and can't resist belittling you for it then you're NTA. It just feels like there's more to this story.

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