okay so YTA for not changing when she told you to. it clearly made he wordy and uncomfortable and it’s not really appropriate anyway.

HOWEVER. you’re NTA for wearing what you want. i’m sick and tired of hearing excuses such as “boys will be boys” or “men can’t control themselves”. even if your dad was looking at you, he shouldn’t.

but, i’m also not sure if your mum is suffering from trauma from her past or genuinely concerned for you because your dad actually is “perving”.

i need INFO. this is confusing. has stuff like this happened before? how old are you? do you wear clothes like this often? do you live with your parents or just staying there temporarily?