NTA

I couldn't get married at a plantation. I think I wouldn't want to have my happiest day take place where so much suffering and evil took place. Sure you can say that about anywhere I guess. Any place humans have existed they have brought with them evil and pain but generally you don't know about it I guess? I wouldn't even want to visit a plantation. Just no reason to. There are plenty of pretty things to look at on this earth that don't remind me of families being torn apart and treated like cattle. I'm not saying what is right and good for me is right and good for others, mind you. To each their own. But I can't sit here and call you an asshole for not being into this.