Aita? My friend uninvited me to her wedding since I have kids out of wedlock. I told her I don’t think we can’t be friends any longer.

Yeah I'll probably get some downvotes, but YTA. My best friend is a devout Catholic and I married one. As a couple we do not practice a religion. But I do know what her in-laws are requesting is...pretty normal. Not being baptized in the Catholic Church I technically cannot take Communion or participate in all activities. I'm the maid of honor but was not permitted to attend the religious ceremony of my best friend as I was not Catholic. But, I'm standing by her side at her reception. While you expect respect for your lack of religion, you have to give in and respect others, to an extent. Now, I would change my vote if you weren't allowed at the reception, but based on what info you've provided, that's not the case. Many ceremonies are becoming more and more private affairs while receptions are growing in being the more "important" and "memorable" part of the wedding.

Again, my vote is YTA. She has to give in to her family a bit here in there as that's a part of life, and being a non-Catholic or even having children out of wedlock is a pretty standard reason to not be allowed into the Catholic ceremony and church. But, you were invited to the reception to celebrate, which you seem to be ignoring and hurting your friend over, which is the event she DID have a choice in.

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