OP nice try buddy but nope! that whole BEFORE YOU NEGATIVELY JUDGE ME shit is not finna work lol ima be real and honest not negatively judge.

With that being said you are wrong u slept with your best friends gf point blank period what makes this whole thing worse is how u really added what u did almost like you’re trying to JUSTIFY wtf u did. All that he lives with his parents, has no job , he treats her sooo horrible really showed me you’re trying to justify this along with the and shes beautiful etc either way dude you’re wrong u should have just encouraged her to leave him and help her in a time of need with out over stepping boundaries. Which you clearly did and you took her being emotional at that moment to your advantage which makes it ever worse! Im glad she hasn’t talked to neither one of u since that happened bc y’all BOTH are wrong u and your best friend lol . Why would u even stay best friends with someone that u feel and said all these negative things about like “idk how he landed her and got her” u seem kinda fake in you’re own way too.

Glad you told him and I’m glad you know what u did was wrong that takes a-lot and those are the first steps to moving forward but don’t try to justify your actions OP goodluck!