All of you guys who judge women for having casual sex, are you ever trying to get it?

I mainly wanted a girlfriend. I did think that losing my v card was a big deal and decided to make sure I do that without any regrets. But I always saw an offer of sex as the sign I’d be able to find a girlfriend but it ended up just being another experience or way to relieve boredom for the woman. That’s why I believe that nowadays men can be treated like the movie characters (women) who were used for sex.

I don’t know if women ever get used to that feeling but I only did it once and it seemed gross as I wouldn’t wanna share it with anyone and I never would want to hang out around friend groups within a woman I’d slept with. And I wouldn’t even call it casual sex when I did it as they weren’t a stranger. The idea of a stranger sharing a sexual moment of intimacy with another stranger seems the same as giving bank details away to them and telling them everything about you. So it probably is determined by how often you do it. The more you do it the less important is the awkwardness.

Then I decided to become permanently single.

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