Look you're getting a ton of reassuring messages so I'm just going to say that the best sex I ever had was with a man who couldn't have been more than 3 inches tops. The things that were so awesome about him were that he was super confident, super adventurous in the bedroom, excited to try to new things, and not afraid to get really dirty and depraved. I think sometimes guys with small penises think a normal sex life is out of reach for them and then it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. One thing I'll suggest, and I may be WAY off here, but try going to a bdsm hangout. Seriously, you will never find more open-minded, kind, people to explore sexuality with. And you may even find a link that helps you. I am a 6'3" female and as such have always felt like less of a woman because I'm not all small and cute. Well when I started dating/ducking the guy with the 3" dick who also happened to be really into bdsm and exploring kinks, I learned a lot about myself. He wanted me to talk about his small dick. Tell him it was the smallest I had ever been with and generally put him down. At first I had a really hard time with it because saying mean things to people does not come easily to me, but when I humored him and tried it, it like inspired him to duck me better than he had ever fucked anyone. So I started experimenting with having myself degraded for my height and I'll be dammed if it didn't make me feel more free and beautiful than I had ever felt. I still don't understand exactly why, but maybe fully embrassing your 3" dick is the way to go. I guess my advice is just to experiment and try crazy things. You never know what you'll find out about yourself.