Yes, a clinical sex therapist can help, but where does one find a clinical sex therapist, how does one pay for that? I'll have to check my Blue Cross policy, but I'm sure I'll have a hard time getting them to sign off on sex therapy - those tight-fisted sons o bitches have to be convinced to pay for a mammogram - and then they only pay for 2/3'd of a mammogram. Do you think they'll just shell out $85 bucks an hour for better orgasms? Think they'll find it "medically necessary?" Because they don't seem to think anti-depressants are "medically necessary" and without those I would jump off a bridge. But the state of medical care and medical insurance is an entirely other issue. My main point is that open forums are a great way to find and exchange information. One has to sift through what is valuable advice and what is not. This sub is great for getting help anonymously and from a wide range of resources. And this question will hopefully be beneficial to other women with the same issue.