Agree with the theory but not the interpretation.

Alpha and beta do exist. No, no, hang with me for a sec. Alpha/beta/sigma are bad interpretations of categories that do exist.

You will only understand this if you're a true sub. You see, some people want to be sexually submissive. Some people want to extend that expression in more than sexual areas, but not all people do.

I draw on personal experience. I can recall instances of small things from childhood, like when a girl playfully "ordered" me around and I got a weird kick from doing it. I do remember others laughing and it added to the kick. Long before I had any conception of sexuality.

And these aren't one-off incidents. Once when I was 10 years old I read an Archie comic where Archie loses a bet and has to do whatever Veronica says for the rest of the day. She makes him carry her books and goes on a date with Reggie, something like that.

That story hit me in ways I couldn't begin to understand, but I just know it was intense.

Fast forward a few decades, an open marriage, etc.. I look at myself and realize that humans are mostly wrong about what we all "should" want. We have narrow mainstream opinions, I think we are at a baby-stage of intellectuality,, and that's all about to get broken wide apart.

Growing up, I attracted friendzone and brozone from girls. Some of my friends attracted sex. I just observed that worked like a natural phenomenon.

But the funny thing is, more I understand / accept/ embrace my natural propensity (I don't want to say "role" lest it trigger someone), I have access to plenty of women now. Despite being in an open marriage.

I think women spot not just whether you're an alpha/beta/whatever, they also spot how comfortable you are being yourself. The closer I get to being a self-accepting beta the closer they seem to get, and one of them told me she had no idea I had sub-leaning tendencies if I hadn't her.

Overall if I could go back in time I'd just be a more self-accepting guy. Not only would I save years of "why doesn't she look at me that way", I'd have opened my eyes to so many women who did look at me that way. Just that those women aren't "my crush". To put it in cringe terms, I was not just crushing way beyond my league, I was crushing on a woman I'd have very little to offer in the first place.

Somehow I ended up in an open marriage, and my girlfriend (not my wife, the woman I mentioned) cucks me and enjoys me making submissive noises. She takes great pleasure in telling me about other men, and I take great pleasure in it too. She let me join in once.

I think humans are far deeper than we all understand, or at least deeper than traditional literature / culture understand.

Now on, I'm gonna be me. Happy sub, and cuckoldry is just one of the expressions of that submissiveness. Only other subs will get this.