Almost 4 years of being no contact with my mum and I finally got fed up with her trying to worm her way back into my life. I let it all out!

Ok I'ma bout to get really real and some will not approve... I am not asking for you to like your mother but if all's she says is true and all you say is true it wouldn't be a bad idea for you to forgive each other ((here is the reason not)) think about it it was horrible and aweful and pretty much tourtue but does it rly help just to be horrible back spread hate? Let me say that again to prove that point is it really better to spread hate? It's ok to say I don't like you and I don't want to talk to you... It's actually beneficial

((Ok so if give her a chance just 1 extra chance and she gets aweful by demanding shit or messing with you disregard what I said tell her to get and stay away and you can hate her))

Just know you are in control and you have choices if your mother is sincere like real sincere (Wich usually isn't the case sadly) you can always hate her but that doesn't mean you have to be an ass after all she is the ass and I don't want you to become any more of her.

Feel free to downvoted now I will likely agree

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