1. If you don't have a partner it's 100% your fault, you will get nowhere unless you understand that first
2. You need to have good physique, that means work out either at home, in parks or in the gym
3. You should take good care of your hygiene (e.g. using peeling gloves for face and body to wash off dead skin and blackheads, use shea butter or other lotions for your face and hands, use a good parfume)
4. You need to somehow interact with other humans otherwise you will always feel like an alien because you don't even know what NTs do or talk about. Watch comedies, movies, sopes, whatever catches your interrest and try learning from their interactions.

I want to create a place where aspies who want to evolve can exchange and interact